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( from the compilation Childhood Dreams)
look deep into your heart
is that child of God still there?
a child that you once were….
or had the pressures of life
have been too much to bear?
the child that once was… now grown old
and with it, the heart… now grown cold
cast your cares on Him..
He once said… and you’ll find rest…
or have you forgotten?
are you still heavily laden?
is life still a burden?
let go…child… let go…
jump into the Father’s arms once more…
like you did sometime before…
you’ll find solace there, that’s true…
as the child that you once were…knew…
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SONG : The Child In Your Heart
( from the compilation Childhood Dreams)
look deep into your heart
is that child of God still there?
a child that you once were….
or had the pressures of life
have been too much to bear?
the child that once was… now grown old
and with it, the heart… now grown cold
cast your cares on Him..
He once said… and you’ll find rest…
or have you forgotten?
are you still heavily laden?
is life still a burden?
let go…child… let go…
jump into the Father’s arms once more…
like you did sometime before…
you’ll find solace there, that’s true…
as the child that you once were…knew…
© 2008 by Peter Allan C. Mariano
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LETTERS : Sacred Duty 3 : Service With Love
( Original Letter : March 10, 2003 )
To my dear friends in Christ;
Kamusta kayong lahat diyan?! (Welcome to everyone out there!) I hope you are all in good condition back there. I was so happy when I received emails from some of you, particularly Anna, Aleth and Jinky. Thanks for the birthday greetings guys! Saka na blow out pag balik ko! (I'll treat you all when I get back!) I also received one email that really warmed my heart. It was from Kosy, including a picture of his family – one big happy family! Malaking kabawasan sa pagka-homesick ko ang mga iyan (these things would really trim down my homesickness) , so thanks a lot. Pasensiya na (Forgive me) if I was not able to reply on time. Iisa lang kasi ang computer dito sa production line namin na may Internet access, so agawan kami. ‘Yung computer na gamit ko ay ibang access meron – access sa mga games, hehehe. ( We only have one computer available here in the production line which has an Internet access, so everyone is scrambling to use it. The computer that I am using has a different access - to games!)
Everybody here is talking about WAR. And believe me, there are even some supporters here of Mr. Saddam Hussein and Mr. Bin Laden. These are some of our Muslim brothers from other countries who are also working as expatriates here in KSA. Well, they are entitled to their own ideologies. But one thing is common – nobody in his right mind wants war. So, please help me in praying for an avertion to war, and a peaceful resolution to this crisis. Let’s pray to the Lord to touch the hearts and minds of the major players in this conflict, so they could all have a change of heart – from hate to LOVE.
“Love is all that matters...” goes the song playing in our computer’s CD player. Homesick kasi ‘yung kasama kong isa. ( My roommate here is homesick). He’s still single and misses his girlfriend... hehehe.... that’s why puro senti ang pinapatugtog. But that line from the song is one perfect description of love – it’s all that really matters. Even in our service to Him.
The following description of love from Paul sums it all. I urge you to memorize it, keep it in your hearts and minds, and live it up to its full extent. It is exactly what Paul himself describe as “... the most excellent way”.
“ If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”
1 Corinthians 13: 1-8 NIV
“ And now these three remain: FAITH; HOPE and LOVE. But the greatest of these is LOVE. ”
1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV
That passage is not just a slum book description of love.. but it perfectly describes what our Sacred Duty to Him should embody – and that is Love. Why love? Why not faith or hope or joy? Simply because of this :
“ If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him, and he in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. GOD IS LOVE. Whoever lives in Love lives in God, and God in him. ”
1 John 4:16 NIV
Even if we can talk in multiple languages, and as Paul said, even the language of angels, but don’t have love – we’re just noise. Even if we have the wisdom of Solomon or can make miracles like the greatest faith healer in the world, but are hearts our devoid of love – then we are nothing. WE ARE NOTHING WITHOUT LOVE. WE ARE NOTHING WITHOUT GOD. Nothing, Nada, Nil, Zero.... it is as if we were not even born, nor even exists.... nothing. This is more aptly applied to our Sacred Duty. Even if we are “successful” in our work (even for Him), but if we have done it without love, then it amounts to nothing. Even if we sacrifice everything, but there’s no love, it just goes to the recycle bin. Jesus himself said...
“ If you had known what these words mean, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice,’ you would not have condemned the innocent. ”
1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV
I once read about a famous pastor/writer from one church who visited a congregation from a different church. I can’t remember the exact details but here is what I know. The pastor went with colleagues, who were eager to show off their “Bible Knowledge” to this congregation. They were greeted warmly by one minister, who mentioned something that didn’t quite agree to what the pastor and his team believed in their own church. But, the pastor didn’t say anything to refute the minister, to the dismay of his companions (eager na nga silang makipag-debate kasi e...). Later, when they asked him why he didn’t make dikdik to the minister, the pastor said that he could do just that, and quite easily, but where would LOVE be if he did just that? Tok! Tinamaan sila ng bato galing langit!
In my work here in Saudi, I handle people of different nationalities, which have a culture, and a level of common sense, very much different from our own. At first, I was easily frustrated, kasi talaga namang #!@&$!?!!!! ang mga taong ito. At one point, one Bangladeshi guy, who is considered the worst case here and who everyone would love to get rid of, really got to my nerves because of his foolishness and irresponsibility, that I issued a directive slapping him with a severe punishment. Management told me that I just say the word and they would kick him back to where he came from. I almost did it... but then I realized... why should I? And then I asked myself WWJD ( What Would Jesus Do?). So, I talked to him, and gave him another chance. He’s been improving ever since, hopefully it would continue. And he told me one time that during his Salah, or the prayers the Muslim people do, he would always pray for me.
Sometimes in our service to Him, we do things this way or that because our own human nature tells us it’s the right thing to do. Yes, I mentioned before that we should do our Sacred Duty with excellence, but if it’s done out of the context of love, then it would be better off if we did nothing at all. Do the following scenarios look familiar :
a) Sure, you delivered that talk with ease and precision and everybody was laughing and clapping their hands – but later you would say how boring and nakaka-antok the next speaker is;
b) Sure, you did a very inspiring sharing that made everyone really cry, even the bato-bato – but later on would remark how the next sharer is just making paikot-ikot and probably was not saying the truth;
c) Sure, you did an excellent number in the cluster assembly or a leadership conference where everyone was dancing and singing their hearts out – but later would remark how the next music ministry makes two much sabit in the way they play or how sintunado their lead singer is.... and so on... and so on.... and not only at our Service to Him, but in others as well.
I remember the story shared by Dondi Nakar, head of our music ministry from the previous community that I attended to. ( I was also part of the music ministry, but this incident happened before I joined ). Now, the group was really good, I mean they are really excellent, and could rival any professional group in terms of musicality, showmanship, technical know-how, equipment and what-have-you. But one time, one religious leader, who also trains music ministry groups, while listening to them perform commented that they were the worst music ministry she has ever heard! Why? Ang galing-galing naman nila a?! (There were really very good?!) It was because they were playing for themselves and not for Him. It was because the music has gone to their heads, and not to lead worship. It was because they were playing to gain praises from the people, and not because it was an outpouring of His Love in their hearts. The group later realized that.... and they had a renewal of their hearts and minds. Now, that same religious leader would listen to them and say – you’re the best there is. And I still believe so!
Let’s do the same brothers and sisters, let’s put LOVE in everything that we do. Let’s put God, who is Love, in the center of everything that we perform. Because it truly is, as Paul puts it, the most excellent way – it’s the only way.
I hope and I pray that each and everyone of you receive his/her RHEMA, or the personal message of God for you, through this letter of mine. May he help you perform your Sacred Duty, full of His presence, full of His Love. And if you received something from this, share it also to others who might need it – just pray to the Lord to inspire you and tell you who it should be. And may the Lord bless you at all times, and help you grow and mature as true Sons and Daughters of the Living God. This I ask and pray in Jesus’ mighty and powerful Name.........
Shalom,
Brod. Pete
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To my dear friends in Christ;
Kamusta kayong lahat diyan?! (Welcome to everyone out there!) I hope you are all in good condition back there. I was so happy when I received emails from some of you, particularly Anna, Aleth and Jinky. Thanks for the birthday greetings guys! Saka na blow out pag balik ko! (I'll treat you all when I get back!) I also received one email that really warmed my heart. It was from Kosy, including a picture of his family – one big happy family! Malaking kabawasan sa pagka-homesick ko ang mga iyan (these things would really trim down my homesickness) , so thanks a lot. Pasensiya na (Forgive me) if I was not able to reply on time. Iisa lang kasi ang computer dito sa production line namin na may Internet access, so agawan kami. ‘Yung computer na gamit ko ay ibang access meron – access sa mga games, hehehe. ( We only have one computer available here in the production line which has an Internet access, so everyone is scrambling to use it. The computer that I am using has a different access - to games!)
Everybody here is talking about WAR. And believe me, there are even some supporters here of Mr. Saddam Hussein and Mr. Bin Laden. These are some of our Muslim brothers from other countries who are also working as expatriates here in KSA. Well, they are entitled to their own ideologies. But one thing is common – nobody in his right mind wants war. So, please help me in praying for an avertion to war, and a peaceful resolution to this crisis. Let’s pray to the Lord to touch the hearts and minds of the major players in this conflict, so they could all have a change of heart – from hate to LOVE.
“Love is all that matters...” goes the song playing in our computer’s CD player. Homesick kasi ‘yung kasama kong isa. ( My roommate here is homesick). He’s still single and misses his girlfriend... hehehe.... that’s why puro senti ang pinapatugtog. But that line from the song is one perfect description of love – it’s all that really matters. Even in our service to Him.
The following description of love from Paul sums it all. I urge you to memorize it, keep it in your hearts and minds, and live it up to its full extent. It is exactly what Paul himself describe as “... the most excellent way”.
“ If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”
1 Corinthians 13: 1-8 NIV
“ And now these three remain: FAITH; HOPE and LOVE. But the greatest of these is LOVE. ”
1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV
That passage is not just a slum book description of love.. but it perfectly describes what our Sacred Duty to Him should embody – and that is Love. Why love? Why not faith or hope or joy? Simply because of this :
“ If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him, and he in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. GOD IS LOVE. Whoever lives in Love lives in God, and God in him. ”
1 John 4:16 NIV
Even if we can talk in multiple languages, and as Paul said, even the language of angels, but don’t have love – we’re just noise. Even if we have the wisdom of Solomon or can make miracles like the greatest faith healer in the world, but are hearts our devoid of love – then we are nothing. WE ARE NOTHING WITHOUT LOVE. WE ARE NOTHING WITHOUT GOD. Nothing, Nada, Nil, Zero.... it is as if we were not even born, nor even exists.... nothing. This is more aptly applied to our Sacred Duty. Even if we are “successful” in our work (even for Him), but if we have done it without love, then it amounts to nothing. Even if we sacrifice everything, but there’s no love, it just goes to the recycle bin. Jesus himself said...
“ If you had known what these words mean, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice,’ you would not have condemned the innocent. ”
1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV
I once read about a famous pastor/writer from one church who visited a congregation from a different church. I can’t remember the exact details but here is what I know. The pastor went with colleagues, who were eager to show off their “Bible Knowledge” to this congregation. They were greeted warmly by one minister, who mentioned something that didn’t quite agree to what the pastor and his team believed in their own church. But, the pastor didn’t say anything to refute the minister, to the dismay of his companions (eager na nga silang makipag-debate kasi e...). Later, when they asked him why he didn’t make dikdik to the minister, the pastor said that he could do just that, and quite easily, but where would LOVE be if he did just that? Tok! Tinamaan sila ng bato galing langit!
In my work here in Saudi, I handle people of different nationalities, which have a culture, and a level of common sense, very much different from our own. At first, I was easily frustrated, kasi talaga namang #!@&$!?!!!! ang mga taong ito. At one point, one Bangladeshi guy, who is considered the worst case here and who everyone would love to get rid of, really got to my nerves because of his foolishness and irresponsibility, that I issued a directive slapping him with a severe punishment. Management told me that I just say the word and they would kick him back to where he came from. I almost did it... but then I realized... why should I? And then I asked myself WWJD ( What Would Jesus Do?). So, I talked to him, and gave him another chance. He’s been improving ever since, hopefully it would continue. And he told me one time that during his Salah, or the prayers the Muslim people do, he would always pray for me.
Sometimes in our service to Him, we do things this way or that because our own human nature tells us it’s the right thing to do. Yes, I mentioned before that we should do our Sacred Duty with excellence, but if it’s done out of the context of love, then it would be better off if we did nothing at all. Do the following scenarios look familiar :
a) Sure, you delivered that talk with ease and precision and everybody was laughing and clapping their hands – but later you would say how boring and nakaka-antok the next speaker is;
b) Sure, you did a very inspiring sharing that made everyone really cry, even the bato-bato – but later on would remark how the next sharer is just making paikot-ikot and probably was not saying the truth;
c) Sure, you did an excellent number in the cluster assembly or a leadership conference where everyone was dancing and singing their hearts out – but later would remark how the next music ministry makes two much sabit in the way they play or how sintunado their lead singer is.... and so on... and so on.... and not only at our Service to Him, but in others as well.
I remember the story shared by Dondi Nakar, head of our music ministry from the previous community that I attended to. ( I was also part of the music ministry, but this incident happened before I joined ). Now, the group was really good, I mean they are really excellent, and could rival any professional group in terms of musicality, showmanship, technical know-how, equipment and what-have-you. But one time, one religious leader, who also trains music ministry groups, while listening to them perform commented that they were the worst music ministry she has ever heard! Why? Ang galing-galing naman nila a?! (There were really very good?!) It was because they were playing for themselves and not for Him. It was because the music has gone to their heads, and not to lead worship. It was because they were playing to gain praises from the people, and not because it was an outpouring of His Love in their hearts. The group later realized that.... and they had a renewal of their hearts and minds. Now, that same religious leader would listen to them and say – you’re the best there is. And I still believe so!
Let’s do the same brothers and sisters, let’s put LOVE in everything that we do. Let’s put God, who is Love, in the center of everything that we perform. Because it truly is, as Paul puts it, the most excellent way – it’s the only way.
I hope and I pray that each and everyone of you receive his/her RHEMA, or the personal message of God for you, through this letter of mine. May he help you perform your Sacred Duty, full of His presence, full of His Love. And if you received something from this, share it also to others who might need it – just pray to the Lord to inspire you and tell you who it should be. And may the Lord bless you at all times, and help you grow and mature as true Sons and Daughters of the Living God. This I ask and pray in Jesus’ mighty and powerful Name.........
Shalom,
Brod. Pete
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LETTERS: Failure - So What?
( Original Letter : February 16, 2003 )
To my dear friends in Christ;
Greetings my friends! What a JOY it is for me to write for you once more. May you all be in good condition and away from sickness of any form. At the time this letter was written, there was still the looming threat of the possible US-Iraq war. I hope that you all have been praying for us here, praying for peace to avert war.
The Eid Holidays have just concluded. This is what’s considered as the New Year’s celebration here by the Muslim people, and during this period, many are going on the Hajj pilgrimage to Makkah, their Holy City. One thing I noticed though with those going on Hajj: before they leave, they would greet everybody and ask forgiveness for all their shortcomings, and failures, real or imagined, from everyone.
Speaking of Failures, the Lord inspired me to write something about this critical topic for you. I know that this would be a good guide for those who are suffering from the setbacks caused by failures that they encountered in their lives. I know…. because I experienced them myself first hand.
I heard a lot of stories, both from RP and from other countries, about people being so depressed because of their failures that they would lose all motivation to go on with their lives. Others would even go the extremes and would eventually commit suicide ( some would even take others with them before they kill themselves. ) Failure in business; failure in their political career; failure in marriage; failure in their love life… the list would go endless. Likewise, you and I have undoubtedly experienced failure one time or another in our lives. But what has been our response to failure? Did we just give up, wither and die like the rest of them? Or did we pick ourselves up from the ashes and start afresh?
Failure is not the end of all things, nor is it the indication that your world had just ceased to exist. It should give us the motivation to go on with our lives and strive to be better. Have you ever pondered on these things when you experienced failure? ….maybe it’s the way we do things that caused us to fail…. maybe, it’s our perspective in life… maybe the Lord is trying to get our attention or trying to tell us something… maybe He’s trying to correct what we’re doing and put us in the right path – because He loves us.
“My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, and He punishes everyone He accepts as a son.”
Hebrews 12: 5b-6 NIV
I view failure as a signal from the Lord that, ooops, I’m straying from the path – okay… regroup!!! It’s painful actually, most of the time, but what we gain after the experience would be more than what we bargained for, or even deserve. We become stronger, wiser, braver, etc and etc. Mary Tyler Moore puts it beautifully :
“You can’t be brave if you’ve only had wonderful things happen to you. ”
Mary Tyler Moore
And yes, the Bible explains this as clear as the day :
“Our father disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in His holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. ”
Hebrews 12: 10-11 NIV
There are a lot of instances in the Bible where people failed, but got up and started anew, then finally made it big. Take Peter for example ( the Apostle… not me… hehehe ), he was overly zealous in saying to Jesus that he would die, while others would flee, before anyone could take Jesus away. But what happened? He disowned Jesus! Three times!!! ( see Luke 22: 59-62 ). Wala na siyang mukhang maihaharap pa kay Jesus no’n, after what he has done. But when Mary Magdalene, together with James’ mother and Salome, went to the tomb of Jesus where He was laid after His death, they got this message from an angel :
“But when they looked up, they saw that the stone which was very large, had been rolled away. They entered the tomb, then they saw a young man dressed in a white robe sitting on the right side, and they were alarmed. ‘Don’t be alarmed’ he said ‘You are looking for Jesus the Nazarene, who was crucified. He has risen! He is not here. See the place where they laid Him. But go, tell His disciples, AND PETER, He is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see Him, just as He told you.’ ”
Mark 16: 4-7 NIV
Take note of this passage… “But go… tell His disciples AND PETER.”!!! Special mention pa siya. The others only ran away, but he denied Jesus three times… but he was mentioned specifically by the Angel. Now, how’s that for someone who failed miserably.
I experienced the same thing in my walk with the Lord. Three times He called me to serve Him. Three times I responded…. but all three failed, one way or the other. First was in college…. in a religious group for students there at UST. Next was at ELIM Community, where I started serving in the Music Ministry and as part of the Art Committee. The last one was when I served as head of the Singles For Christ Unit in Amkor/Anam. Everything was going well, until I got a “good” job wherein I earned dollars while staying in the Philippines. Paldo tayo noon, mga kaibigan! But even though I gained a lot back then materially, I lost touch with the SFC Group, which was my ministry. Then I slowly went back to my old ways – goodtime dito, goodtime doon – paldo nga kasi e, ang daming pera. Then my relationship with Mommy Jing got strained…. and we went farther apart as I went deeper and deeper into the pit. So, what did the Lord do? He took away my job, plain and simple. I lost the job, and had no stable income for more than a year, and was up to my neck in debts.
But when I look back through those days of struggle, I knew that the Lord was with me all the way. Kinalabit Niya ako, mabuti naman at lumingon ako. I got my life back on track. I got a new job and slowly recovered in that aspect. Mommy Jing and I grew stronger in our relationship – and were rewarded with Kenji!!! And my relationship with Him has been growing ever since.
I experienced failure big time, but the Lord never let me go. He helped me get up, and offered me another opportunity to serve Him anew – this time with CFC and SFC of Muntinlupa… o ‘di ba? Just like Peter, my tokayo, in the Gospel. The Lord, after His resurrection, asked Peter three times “Simon, do you truly love me more than these?” and he replied three times also “Yes Lord, you know that I love you.” (see John 21:15-17). His previous failures have been vindicated by the Lord, and he was restored to His graces. That was His personal calling for me too, when He told me to go back to him --- Peter, feed my lambs…. and I responded…. and won’t ever back down, never again!
So, my brothers and sisters, don’t lose heart whenever you experience failure. Ask yourselves the questions I outlined to you earlier. And remember these words of Paul, and you would find yourself in the right track :
“But whatever was to my profit, I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things.. ”
Philippians 3: 7-8 NIV
I hope that you received something from what I just shared with you. It would be a great joy for me if I could hear some response from the rest of you, as what I felt when I received emails from the others. I urge you to share these letters to the other SFC’s or other members from your own community (ask me if you need a copy of the previous ones) who don’t have access to the internet. Print them, give it to them, and/or read them during your household or prayer meetings – they could make a good discussion topic if you want to.
Continue to pray for me and for the situation in the Middle East. Please pray for my three friends : Kuya Efren; Kuya Muloy and Kuya Tony; who are still stranded here in KSA awaiting the result of their complaint against their employer from the Saudi Labor courts. Also, please pray for the soul of our Uncle Boy, who recently passed away. I always pray for you back there. I hope you do the same for me too. May the Lord bless you all and keep you, and may He provide you with everything you need, in Jesus’ Name.
Failure doesn’t mean you are a failure; it means you have not succeeded.
Failure doesn’t mean you accomplished nothing; it means you have learned something.
Failure doesn’t mean that you have been a fool; it means you had a lot of faith.
Failure doesn’t mean you’ve been disgraced; it means you were willing to try.
Failure doesn’t mean you don’t have it; it means you have to do
something in a different way.
Failure doesn’t mean you are inferior; it means you are not perfect.
Failure doesn’t mean you’ve wasted your life; it means you have
a reason to start afresh.
Failure doesn’t mean you should give up; it means you must try harder.
Failure doesn’t mean you’ll never make it; it means it will take
a little longer.
-- unknown --
Shalom,
Brod. Pete
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“ He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor requite us according to our iniquities.
For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is His steadfast love toward those who fear Him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does He remove our transgressions from us.”
Psalm 103:10-12 RSV
To my dear friends in Christ;
Greetings my friends! What a JOY it is for me to write for you once more. May you all be in good condition and away from sickness of any form. At the time this letter was written, there was still the looming threat of the possible US-Iraq war. I hope that you all have been praying for us here, praying for peace to avert war.
The Eid Holidays have just concluded. This is what’s considered as the New Year’s celebration here by the Muslim people, and during this period, many are going on the Hajj pilgrimage to Makkah, their Holy City. One thing I noticed though with those going on Hajj: before they leave, they would greet everybody and ask forgiveness for all their shortcomings, and failures, real or imagined, from everyone.
Speaking of Failures, the Lord inspired me to write something about this critical topic for you. I know that this would be a good guide for those who are suffering from the setbacks caused by failures that they encountered in their lives. I know…. because I experienced them myself first hand.
I heard a lot of stories, both from RP and from other countries, about people being so depressed because of their failures that they would lose all motivation to go on with their lives. Others would even go the extremes and would eventually commit suicide ( some would even take others with them before they kill themselves. ) Failure in business; failure in their political career; failure in marriage; failure in their love life… the list would go endless. Likewise, you and I have undoubtedly experienced failure one time or another in our lives. But what has been our response to failure? Did we just give up, wither and die like the rest of them? Or did we pick ourselves up from the ashes and start afresh?
Failure is not the end of all things, nor is it the indication that your world had just ceased to exist. It should give us the motivation to go on with our lives and strive to be better. Have you ever pondered on these things when you experienced failure? ….maybe it’s the way we do things that caused us to fail…. maybe, it’s our perspective in life… maybe the Lord is trying to get our attention or trying to tell us something… maybe He’s trying to correct what we’re doing and put us in the right path – because He loves us.
“My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, and He punishes everyone He accepts as a son.”
Hebrews 12: 5b-6 NIV
I view failure as a signal from the Lord that, ooops, I’m straying from the path – okay… regroup!!! It’s painful actually, most of the time, but what we gain after the experience would be more than what we bargained for, or even deserve. We become stronger, wiser, braver, etc and etc. Mary Tyler Moore puts it beautifully :
“You can’t be brave if you’ve only had wonderful things happen to you. ”
Mary Tyler Moore
And yes, the Bible explains this as clear as the day :
“Our father disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in His holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. ”
Hebrews 12: 10-11 NIV
There are a lot of instances in the Bible where people failed, but got up and started anew, then finally made it big. Take Peter for example ( the Apostle… not me… hehehe ), he was overly zealous in saying to Jesus that he would die, while others would flee, before anyone could take Jesus away. But what happened? He disowned Jesus! Three times!!! ( see Luke 22: 59-62 ). Wala na siyang mukhang maihaharap pa kay Jesus no’n, after what he has done. But when Mary Magdalene, together with James’ mother and Salome, went to the tomb of Jesus where He was laid after His death, they got this message from an angel :
“But when they looked up, they saw that the stone which was very large, had been rolled away. They entered the tomb, then they saw a young man dressed in a white robe sitting on the right side, and they were alarmed. ‘Don’t be alarmed’ he said ‘You are looking for Jesus the Nazarene, who was crucified. He has risen! He is not here. See the place where they laid Him. But go, tell His disciples, AND PETER, He is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see Him, just as He told you.’ ”
Mark 16: 4-7 NIV
Take note of this passage… “But go… tell His disciples AND PETER.”!!! Special mention pa siya. The others only ran away, but he denied Jesus three times… but he was mentioned specifically by the Angel. Now, how’s that for someone who failed miserably.
I experienced the same thing in my walk with the Lord. Three times He called me to serve Him. Three times I responded…. but all three failed, one way or the other. First was in college…. in a religious group for students there at UST. Next was at ELIM Community, where I started serving in the Music Ministry and as part of the Art Committee. The last one was when I served as head of the Singles For Christ Unit in Amkor/Anam. Everything was going well, until I got a “good” job wherein I earned dollars while staying in the Philippines. Paldo tayo noon, mga kaibigan! But even though I gained a lot back then materially, I lost touch with the SFC Group, which was my ministry. Then I slowly went back to my old ways – goodtime dito, goodtime doon – paldo nga kasi e, ang daming pera. Then my relationship with Mommy Jing got strained…. and we went farther apart as I went deeper and deeper into the pit. So, what did the Lord do? He took away my job, plain and simple. I lost the job, and had no stable income for more than a year, and was up to my neck in debts.
But when I look back through those days of struggle, I knew that the Lord was with me all the way. Kinalabit Niya ako, mabuti naman at lumingon ako. I got my life back on track. I got a new job and slowly recovered in that aspect. Mommy Jing and I grew stronger in our relationship – and were rewarded with Kenji!!! And my relationship with Him has been growing ever since.
I experienced failure big time, but the Lord never let me go. He helped me get up, and offered me another opportunity to serve Him anew – this time with CFC and SFC of Muntinlupa… o ‘di ba? Just like Peter, my tokayo, in the Gospel. The Lord, after His resurrection, asked Peter three times “Simon, do you truly love me more than these?” and he replied three times also “Yes Lord, you know that I love you.” (see John 21:15-17). His previous failures have been vindicated by the Lord, and he was restored to His graces. That was His personal calling for me too, when He told me to go back to him --- Peter, feed my lambs…. and I responded…. and won’t ever back down, never again!
So, my brothers and sisters, don’t lose heart whenever you experience failure. Ask yourselves the questions I outlined to you earlier. And remember these words of Paul, and you would find yourself in the right track :
“But whatever was to my profit, I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things.. ”
Philippians 3: 7-8 NIV
I hope that you received something from what I just shared with you. It would be a great joy for me if I could hear some response from the rest of you, as what I felt when I received emails from the others. I urge you to share these letters to the other SFC’s or other members from your own community (ask me if you need a copy of the previous ones) who don’t have access to the internet. Print them, give it to them, and/or read them during your household or prayer meetings – they could make a good discussion topic if you want to.
Continue to pray for me and for the situation in the Middle East. Please pray for my three friends : Kuya Efren; Kuya Muloy and Kuya Tony; who are still stranded here in KSA awaiting the result of their complaint against their employer from the Saudi Labor courts. Also, please pray for the soul of our Uncle Boy, who recently passed away. I always pray for you back there. I hope you do the same for me too. May the Lord bless you all and keep you, and may He provide you with everything you need, in Jesus’ Name.
Failure doesn’t mean you are a failure; it means you have not succeeded.
Failure doesn’t mean you accomplished nothing; it means you have learned something.
Failure doesn’t mean that you have been a fool; it means you had a lot of faith.
Failure doesn’t mean you’ve been disgraced; it means you were willing to try.
Failure doesn’t mean you don’t have it; it means you have to do
something in a different way.
Failure doesn’t mean you are inferior; it means you are not perfect.
Failure doesn’t mean you’ve wasted your life; it means you have
a reason to start afresh.
Failure doesn’t mean you should give up; it means you must try harder.
Failure doesn’t mean you’ll never make it; it means it will take
a little longer.
-- unknown --
Shalom,
Brod. Pete
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For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is His steadfast love toward those who fear Him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does He remove our transgressions from us.”
Psalm 103:10-12 RSV
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LETTERS : Sacred Duty 2 - Body Parts
(Original Letter - February 2, 2003)
To my dear friends in Christ,
Greetings to you all. I hope that you’re all doing fine and in good health. At the time of writing of this letter, a lot of people are quite fearful because of the looming threat posted by the possible US – Iraq War, and its implications here in the Middle East. Even watching TFC (The Filipino Channel) is no comfort, what with all the sensationalized news being aired there, adding to the fear. All I can do right now is pray that all will be well, and encouraging others here as well. I urge you all to please pray for the resolution of this conflict here in the Middle East, .... and , oh yes, pray for me too...
Forgive me for the title of this letter... “Body Parts”... sounds macabre, isn’t it? Well, I’m referring to our being part of the Body of Christ, and as being members of this Body, it is our Sacred Duty to function effectively... in the way we ought to. We all finished the CLP. And part of that is being baptized in the Spirit. And being baptized in the Spirit, we became part of the Body of Christ.
“ There is one body and one Spirit – just as you were called to one hope when you were called – one Lord, one Faith, one Baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all, and through all and in all.”
Ephesians 4: 4-6 NIV
I urge you to read carefully 1 Cor. 12:12-31. This passage explains in detail that we are part of the Body of Christ, just as we were baptized into it.
“ Now you are the body of Christ, and each of you is a part of it.”
1 Corinthians 12: 27 NIV
Different parts, different functions... each has his own Sacred Duty to perform. As I’ve mentioned in Sacred Duty1 (for those of you who haven’t read it and the previous ones, please check the blogspot or the website, or ask me directly and I’ll email them to you), it encompasses all aspects of our lives – our work, family and society – and we all have our roles to play in these areas. It depends on what He called us to do, using the Gifts that He also gave us through the Holy Spirit. It could be anything He wants us to do for Him – a source of encouragement in the family and work; a facilitator in the Christian Life Program (CLP) or any Renewal program in your community; a volunteer in an outreach program; or being part of Gideon 300, and be sent as a missionary abroad! It could be small, or it could be big. It could be simple, or it could hold a greater measure of responsibility. As long as He wants us to do it – then we should do it!
In a previous community that I attended to, we also have a weekend Life in the Spirit Seminar similar to the CLP, but only done in two days. Some were assigned as facilitators, while the rest were assigned other activities – including preparation of the place and arranging the chairs. But you know what, those whose task were simply to arrange chairs, would pray over each and every chair they’re arranging, asking God to grant the Holy Spirit and enlighten the one who would sit on that particular chair! And they do it enthusiastically – I tell you.
Look into yourselves,... have we ever grumbled because we were not assigned an “important” role as a speaker, or as a facilitator? If God wants you to be the floor manager (in charge of cleaning after the CLP) then do it with all your heart! But if you were assigned an “important” role like a facilitator, or even the Team Leader, don’t take it all up to your head and think, and believe, that you have the most “important” duty of all. Notice how I put the quotes in “important”, because every duty that God has assigned for anyone is IMPORTANT, and not only those who we think are “important”. Get my point? Now, let’s see what’s Jesus say in this :
“ An argument started among the disciples as to which of them would be the greatest. Jesus, knowing their thoughts, took a little child and had him stand beside Him. Then He said to them, ‘Whoever welcomes this little child in My Name welcomes Me; and whoever welcomes Me, welcomes the One Who sent Me. For he who is least among you all – he is the greatest.’ ”
Luke 9: 46-48 NIV
Now you might ask : How can we know what our Sacred Duty is? Ah,.. good question. He will reveal it to us as we become closer and closer to Him. And we can do that through our prayers and worship, both personally and through community. It can also be revealed through our community, through the prayers and discernment of our elders and leaders. Or God will create situations for us to react to – and His will can be revealed in these situations. Just remember, always have a servant’s heart, my brothers and sisters. Who knows... one day Jesus might tap you on the shoulder, and give us the “role” that we aspire for. This passage that I’ll share with you from Romans clearly spells it all :
“ Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God – this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Romans 12: 1-2 NIV
That my friends is how we’ll know the Sacred Duty God wants us to perform. And once we know it, we should do it with all our hearts and our will, pouring into it our time, talent and treasure. And I’m sure that you’ll bear fruit – much, much fruit. So next time you arrange a chair in the CLP, or sing a song during worship in gatherings, or share what Jesus has done for you to someone – do it with excellence! It could be part of your Sacred Duty to God.
I’m glad to have heard some updates from Pearl on what’s going on with SFC Muntinlupa. I was very thrilled to hear that you’re holding household meetings regularly. Keep it up, and encourage others to do so. Thanks to Richie for including me in the egroups. To those of you who receive this letter, please send it also to other SFC members that you know of, or print copies to those who don’t have email. Give copies to the Couples too, they might need it also.
But I have one message to the others : SULATAN N’YO AKO!!!! He,he,he.... just send me emails updating me of what’s going on with your lives. Hey.. you can email me your problems too, or seek some advice regarding any matter... I’ll me more willing to give help.
I pray that the Lord grant us all His wisdom, knowledge and understanding so we could know all about our Sacred Duty in detail – and be able to perform it with excellence. May the Lord supply you with all your needs, and grant you good health and protection.... In Jesus’ Name!
Shalom,
Brod. Pete
“Letters from my Sojourn”
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“ Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved,
a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who
correctly handles the word of truth.”
2 Timothy 2: 15
To my dear friends in Christ,
Greetings to you all. I hope that you’re all doing fine and in good health. At the time of writing of this letter, a lot of people are quite fearful because of the looming threat posted by the possible US – Iraq War, and its implications here in the Middle East. Even watching TFC (The Filipino Channel) is no comfort, what with all the sensationalized news being aired there, adding to the fear. All I can do right now is pray that all will be well, and encouraging others here as well. I urge you all to please pray for the resolution of this conflict here in the Middle East, .... and , oh yes, pray for me too...
Forgive me for the title of this letter... “Body Parts”... sounds macabre, isn’t it? Well, I’m referring to our being part of the Body of Christ, and as being members of this Body, it is our Sacred Duty to function effectively... in the way we ought to. We all finished the CLP. And part of that is being baptized in the Spirit. And being baptized in the Spirit, we became part of the Body of Christ.
“ There is one body and one Spirit – just as you were called to one hope when you were called – one Lord, one Faith, one Baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all, and through all and in all.”
Ephesians 4: 4-6 NIV
I urge you to read carefully 1 Cor. 12:12-31. This passage explains in detail that we are part of the Body of Christ, just as we were baptized into it.
“ Now you are the body of Christ, and each of you is a part of it.”
1 Corinthians 12: 27 NIV
Different parts, different functions... each has his own Sacred Duty to perform. As I’ve mentioned in Sacred Duty1 (for those of you who haven’t read it and the previous ones, please check the blogspot or the website, or ask me directly and I’ll email them to you), it encompasses all aspects of our lives – our work, family and society – and we all have our roles to play in these areas. It depends on what He called us to do, using the Gifts that He also gave us through the Holy Spirit. It could be anything He wants us to do for Him – a source of encouragement in the family and work; a facilitator in the Christian Life Program (CLP) or any Renewal program in your community; a volunteer in an outreach program; or being part of Gideon 300, and be sent as a missionary abroad! It could be small, or it could be big. It could be simple, or it could hold a greater measure of responsibility. As long as He wants us to do it – then we should do it!
In a previous community that I attended to, we also have a weekend Life in the Spirit Seminar similar to the CLP, but only done in two days. Some were assigned as facilitators, while the rest were assigned other activities – including preparation of the place and arranging the chairs. But you know what, those whose task were simply to arrange chairs, would pray over each and every chair they’re arranging, asking God to grant the Holy Spirit and enlighten the one who would sit on that particular chair! And they do it enthusiastically – I tell you.
Look into yourselves,... have we ever grumbled because we were not assigned an “important” role as a speaker, or as a facilitator? If God wants you to be the floor manager (in charge of cleaning after the CLP) then do it with all your heart! But if you were assigned an “important” role like a facilitator, or even the Team Leader, don’t take it all up to your head and think, and believe, that you have the most “important” duty of all. Notice how I put the quotes in “important”, because every duty that God has assigned for anyone is IMPORTANT, and not only those who we think are “important”. Get my point? Now, let’s see what’s Jesus say in this :
“ An argument started among the disciples as to which of them would be the greatest. Jesus, knowing their thoughts, took a little child and had him stand beside Him. Then He said to them, ‘Whoever welcomes this little child in My Name welcomes Me; and whoever welcomes Me, welcomes the One Who sent Me. For he who is least among you all – he is the greatest.’ ”
Luke 9: 46-48 NIV
Now you might ask : How can we know what our Sacred Duty is? Ah,.. good question. He will reveal it to us as we become closer and closer to Him. And we can do that through our prayers and worship, both personally and through community. It can also be revealed through our community, through the prayers and discernment of our elders and leaders. Or God will create situations for us to react to – and His will can be revealed in these situations. Just remember, always have a servant’s heart, my brothers and sisters. Who knows... one day Jesus might tap you on the shoulder, and give us the “role” that we aspire for. This passage that I’ll share with you from Romans clearly spells it all :
“ Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God – this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Romans 12: 1-2 NIV
That my friends is how we’ll know the Sacred Duty God wants us to perform. And once we know it, we should do it with all our hearts and our will, pouring into it our time, talent and treasure. And I’m sure that you’ll bear fruit – much, much fruit. So next time you arrange a chair in the CLP, or sing a song during worship in gatherings, or share what Jesus has done for you to someone – do it with excellence! It could be part of your Sacred Duty to God.
I’m glad to have heard some updates from Pearl on what’s going on with SFC Muntinlupa. I was very thrilled to hear that you’re holding household meetings regularly. Keep it up, and encourage others to do so. Thanks to Richie for including me in the egroups. To those of you who receive this letter, please send it also to other SFC members that you know of, or print copies to those who don’t have email. Give copies to the Couples too, they might need it also.
But I have one message to the others : SULATAN N’YO AKO!!!! He,he,he.... just send me emails updating me of what’s going on with your lives. Hey.. you can email me your problems too, or seek some advice regarding any matter... I’ll me more willing to give help.
I pray that the Lord grant us all His wisdom, knowledge and understanding so we could know all about our Sacred Duty in detail – and be able to perform it with excellence. May the Lord supply you with all your needs, and grant you good health and protection.... In Jesus’ Name!
Shalom,
Brod. Pete
“Letters from my Sojourn”
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“ Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved,
a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who
correctly handles the word of truth.”
2 Timothy 2: 15
LETTERS: Sacred Duty 1 - A Fresh Start
(Original Letter - December 31, 2002)
To my dear friends in Christ,
Greetings!
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you all!!! I hope each and every one of you back there enjoyed the happiness that this season brings, but let us not forget the Reason for the season. We may have the tendency to concentrate only on the festivities – and forget the One who we should be celebrating for.
As for me, Christmas day here in Saudi was a regular working day. Actually, it is celebrated here in secret dahil bawal nga. So, we celebrated na lang on the 26th, Thursday, which is a weekend here. I joined my friends from another company, actually a former sister-company of my employer, before the brother-owners decided to call it quits after a feud, and finally separated.
The problem in that other company is that their salary has been delayed for 5 months now. And those who voiced out their complaints to the owner were unjustly thrown out of their jobs. Well okay, they were fired, so it is proper that they receive their salary balance, their benefits from their years of stay, and their plane ticket for home. But it’s been three months now since they were ejected, and they haven’t received a single Riyal, claiming that the company has no funds as of that time. Now, these three friends of mine sought the help of the Philippine Embassy, and their case is now at the Saudi Labor. It appears that they are on the winning side, but it would take time, maybe 6 months to one year, before the employer buckles and give them their due. So, all they could do right now is stay in their villa (mabuti nga hindi pa sila ejected sa villa nila e), and wait – without jobs, without money to support their family back home, and almost without hope.
They rely on us: me, from another company, and the rest of the Filipino group from their own company who were not ejected. We pool our resources, so that everybody could be supported, particularly on food. And this Christmas celebration, we pooled what little we have for a little celebration – to bring some joy to all our hearts. I can’t imagine how my friends could be feeling. Kung ako nga na wala namang masyadong problema sa trabaho, but far from my loved ones, feel sad because I’m so far away this Christmas, what more silang tatlo. What I can only do is pray for them, and give them encouragement in what little way I can, and hope that this New Year would give them a fresh start.
That is also what I’m praying for, not only for me and Mommy Jing, but for every one of you – a fresh start this New Year. This experience with my three friends reminded me that there are a lot of people in need out there: materially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. And as CFC Singles For Christ members or for any other Christian community members there as well, it is our Sacred Duty to help them – in any way we can. And I believe this duty is part of our SFC Covenant, particularly item#2:
“I will work towards the evangelization and transformation of my work place, my family and my community.”
SFC Covenant #2
Let us renew our lives and have this fresh start. Let’s begin with our own New Year’s resolution. If your planning one for the next year, choose one that focuses more on our Sacred Duty, and set aside our worldly ways for a while, or better, completely. And as in Paul’s letter to Timothy says, we must strive in performing our best in our Sacred Duty to God:
“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.”
2 Timothy 2: 15 NIV
As stipulated in our SFC Covenant, our Sacred Duty encompasses all major aspects of our lives: our work; our family; and our society. We must strive in excellence in all three and not just in one area. We cannot be overly active in our SFC activities, and then neglect our family duties. Nor can we cannot be totally engulfed in our career, and disregard our family and community. Ang hirap no? But with the help of God, we can do it!
Sabi Niya sa John 15 that He is the vine and we are the branches. As Christians, we have heard His word, and He in turn “prunes” us so that we become fruitful. That is the main focus of our Sacred Duty – to bear fruit, in all aspects of our lives.
“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit He prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the Word I have spoken to you. Remain in Me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me.
I am the vine, you are the branches. If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned”
John 15: 1-6 NIV
This duty can be anything that He assigns to us : from being a spiritual encouragement at home and at work; or doing an active part in one of our CFC or Gawad Kalinga projects, like SAGIP or the Prison Ministry; inviting someone to the CLP and help him finish it; or just helping someone in need anyway we can. We can learn to discover His plans for us, and what He intends for us to do for Him (we’ll discuss this topic in Sacred Duty 2). But we can only do that if we remain in Him – through our prayers, personally and in community; and contemplating on His Word.
If we try to do things in our own way, we are bound to fail sooner or later – for we can do nothing without Him. It’s like this palm fruit here in the Middle East, the Dates. Pluck it from the tree and it grows so sweet for some time. But after a while, it withers and slowly rots. That would happen to us if we severe ourselves from Him. But if Christ is the center of what we do, then we can accomplish more of what He intends for us to finish, and bear much, much fruit.
So, my friends, I encourage you to stop for a while and ponder: Where is my life heading to? Am I doing the Sacred Duty God intends for me to perform? Is Christ the center of what I am busying myself in? Use the SFC Covenant as your guidebook – and check for yourself if you’re on the right track. Then make a decision and take this opportunity to have a brand new start in life.
May God supply you with all your needs. May He give you wisdom, knowledge and understanding to guide you in the Sacred Duty that He assigned to you. May this New Year bring you a fresh start in Life so you can strive for excellence, bear fruit, and reach the goal that’s waiting for us at the end of the race – the Crown of Eternal Life.
Please pray for me , as I’ve been praying for you. Pray for your elders, and share whatever blessings you receive from the Lord with other members of our community. And may the Lord bless you and keep you, this New Year, and in the years to come. In Jesus Name!
Yours in Christ,
Brod. Pete
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To my dear friends in Christ,
Greetings!
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you all!!! I hope each and every one of you back there enjoyed the happiness that this season brings, but let us not forget the Reason for the season. We may have the tendency to concentrate only on the festivities – and forget the One who we should be celebrating for.
As for me, Christmas day here in Saudi was a regular working day. Actually, it is celebrated here in secret dahil bawal nga. So, we celebrated na lang on the 26th, Thursday, which is a weekend here. I joined my friends from another company, actually a former sister-company of my employer, before the brother-owners decided to call it quits after a feud, and finally separated.
The problem in that other company is that their salary has been delayed for 5 months now. And those who voiced out their complaints to the owner were unjustly thrown out of their jobs. Well okay, they were fired, so it is proper that they receive their salary balance, their benefits from their years of stay, and their plane ticket for home. But it’s been three months now since they were ejected, and they haven’t received a single Riyal, claiming that the company has no funds as of that time. Now, these three friends of mine sought the help of the Philippine Embassy, and their case is now at the Saudi Labor. It appears that they are on the winning side, but it would take time, maybe 6 months to one year, before the employer buckles and give them their due. So, all they could do right now is stay in their villa (mabuti nga hindi pa sila ejected sa villa nila e), and wait – without jobs, without money to support their family back home, and almost without hope.
They rely on us: me, from another company, and the rest of the Filipino group from their own company who were not ejected. We pool our resources, so that everybody could be supported, particularly on food. And this Christmas celebration, we pooled what little we have for a little celebration – to bring some joy to all our hearts. I can’t imagine how my friends could be feeling. Kung ako nga na wala namang masyadong problema sa trabaho, but far from my loved ones, feel sad because I’m so far away this Christmas, what more silang tatlo. What I can only do is pray for them, and give them encouragement in what little way I can, and hope that this New Year would give them a fresh start.
That is also what I’m praying for, not only for me and Mommy Jing, but for every one of you – a fresh start this New Year. This experience with my three friends reminded me that there are a lot of people in need out there: materially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. And as CFC Singles For Christ members or for any other Christian community members there as well, it is our Sacred Duty to help them – in any way we can. And I believe this duty is part of our SFC Covenant, particularly item#2:
“I will work towards the evangelization and transformation of my work place, my family and my community.”
SFC Covenant #2
Let us renew our lives and have this fresh start. Let’s begin with our own New Year’s resolution. If your planning one for the next year, choose one that focuses more on our Sacred Duty, and set aside our worldly ways for a while, or better, completely. And as in Paul’s letter to Timothy says, we must strive in performing our best in our Sacred Duty to God:
“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.”
2 Timothy 2: 15 NIV
As stipulated in our SFC Covenant, our Sacred Duty encompasses all major aspects of our lives: our work; our family; and our society. We must strive in excellence in all three and not just in one area. We cannot be overly active in our SFC activities, and then neglect our family duties. Nor can we cannot be totally engulfed in our career, and disregard our family and community. Ang hirap no? But with the help of God, we can do it!
Sabi Niya sa John 15 that He is the vine and we are the branches. As Christians, we have heard His word, and He in turn “prunes” us so that we become fruitful. That is the main focus of our Sacred Duty – to bear fruit, in all aspects of our lives.
“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit He prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the Word I have spoken to you. Remain in Me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me.
I am the vine, you are the branches. If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned”
John 15: 1-6 NIV
This duty can be anything that He assigns to us : from being a spiritual encouragement at home and at work; or doing an active part in one of our CFC or Gawad Kalinga projects, like SAGIP or the Prison Ministry; inviting someone to the CLP and help him finish it; or just helping someone in need anyway we can. We can learn to discover His plans for us, and what He intends for us to do for Him (we’ll discuss this topic in Sacred Duty 2). But we can only do that if we remain in Him – through our prayers, personally and in community; and contemplating on His Word.
If we try to do things in our own way, we are bound to fail sooner or later – for we can do nothing without Him. It’s like this palm fruit here in the Middle East, the Dates. Pluck it from the tree and it grows so sweet for some time. But after a while, it withers and slowly rots. That would happen to us if we severe ourselves from Him. But if Christ is the center of what we do, then we can accomplish more of what He intends for us to finish, and bear much, much fruit.
So, my friends, I encourage you to stop for a while and ponder: Where is my life heading to? Am I doing the Sacred Duty God intends for me to perform? Is Christ the center of what I am busying myself in? Use the SFC Covenant as your guidebook – and check for yourself if you’re on the right track. Then make a decision and take this opportunity to have a brand new start in life.
May God supply you with all your needs. May He give you wisdom, knowledge and understanding to guide you in the Sacred Duty that He assigned to you. May this New Year bring you a fresh start in Life so you can strive for excellence, bear fruit, and reach the goal that’s waiting for us at the end of the race – the Crown of Eternal Life.
Please pray for me , as I’ve been praying for you. Pray for your elders, and share whatever blessings you receive from the Lord with other members of our community. And may the Lord bless you and keep you, this New Year, and in the years to come. In Jesus Name!
Yours in Christ,
Brod. Pete
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